Badger Launching Apparatus No 3

Vancouver… “French Toast”? [X]

Thu, 23 May 2013 22:29:00 -0700

Vancouver… “French Toast”? [X]

criacow replied to your photo: aaaaaaaa SO EXCITED. Never played them but have heard such good...

Thu, 23 May 2013 15:46:00 -0700

criacow replied to your photo: aaaaaaaa

SO EXCITED. Never played them but have heard such good things…

Same here! In the meantime I’ve been playing through Link’s Awakening DX, which I vaguely remember having played in the past but never finished. So I’ll probably try to complete it before starting in on the Oracle re-releases.

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Thu, 23 May 2013 15:22:00 -0700

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regularmathematikos: pyrrha-nyktipolos: as the greatest of ironies dysphoria saved me from suicide...

Wed, 22 May 2013 23:50:35 -0700

regularmathematikos:

pyrrha-nyktipolos:

as the greatest of ironies dysphoria saved me from suicide at certain points because what was worse than staying alive was the idea of being known only by my birth-assigned name and gender, and being “wept” as a man
this still keeps me from those spirals sometimes because legally nothing’s changed and I know for one thing that I can’t trust my family not to bury me in a fucking suit

This actually really resonates with me? Like less so on the particular point of suicide, but with regard to dysphoria giving me a sort of purpose? Like my whole life up to a year ago I had a goal in mind of getting on hormones and living life as a woman and everything, and I guess maybe that future goal gave me the dedication to be motivated about other things?

But now, like. I’m here. Like I’m living the dream or whatever, but now that it’s happened I don’t really feel like there’s anything else for me to do? There was a period where dysphoria gave my life purpose, and now that it’s gone my whole existence seems kind of purposeless?

I think that’s a fairly common experience. I can’t speak to the suicidal part either, but yeah, it’s reasonable to feel down after the initial rush of getting your gender stuff together. Because wow, how do you top that?

But the answer is that you do find new meaning, because dealing with gender stuff frees you up to do so.

It took me a long time after transition to figure out that I can find meaning in storytelling and in art, and in how I can use that to make a difference in people’s lives. But I’m really glad I got to that point.

It takes time, and an open mind. But you can get there. Honest.

lesbiansandthelivingdead: sheisahopelessromantic: marrymyface: bisexual guys are assumed to be...

Wed, 22 May 2013 17:48:37 -0700

lesbiansandthelivingdead:

sheisahopelessromantic:

marrymyface:

bisexual guys are assumed to be secretly gay

bisexual girls are assumed to be secretly straight

both are assumed to secretly like men

see what i’m getting at?

#men in society: forever believing that the world revolves around their dicks #talk about egocentricism

Don’t forget that gay men are gay because they lacked a “strong male figure”. And lesbians either haven’t found the right man or are gay because of a guy.

tofu93: that-gay-bunny: acciogaysharks: fag-ology: beinggayis...

Wed, 22 May 2013 17:23:33 -0700

tofu93:

that-gay-bunny:

acciogaysharks:

fag-ology:

beinggayisokay:

I wish this was an exaggeration, I really do.

But its not

Dear lord, this is one of the most accurate posts on this site.

You forgot the ruffles.

this is me shopping

Also me. God.

My sympathies to the hard-working engineers of Tumblr. Acquisitions fucking suck. I know we like to...

Sun, 19 May 2013 11:25:21 -0700

My sympathies to the hard-working engineers of Tumblr. Acquisitions fucking suck.

I know we like to make fun of you for not prioritizing the features we want, but I can’t imagine your job is going to get any easier with Yahoo showing up and mucking with everything. My sympathies.

May you all get wonderful payouts with short vesting periods and then get the fuck out of Tumblr and into better jobs.

tormentedthrenodist: Seattle Homestucks - a March Madness Eridan cosplayer wants you to know he...

Sat, 18 May 2013 22:46:08 -0700

tormentedthrenodist:

Seattle Homestucks - a March Madness Eridan cosplayer wants you to know he works at the Safeway on Capitol Hill. On Fifteenth Avenue East, to be precise.

Sincerely,
Rose Lalonde

solarbird: If you’re into the whole old-school SF idea of...

Fri, 17 May 2013 11:28:00 -0700

solarbird:

If you’re into the whole old-school SF idea of planned/constructed societies and all that -and if you haven’t read much SF of the 30s though early 60s, you’ve missed out – you really need to read about Synco (a.k.a. Project Cybersyn) in Chile during the Allende administration, before the Pinochet coup d’etat. Because they tried it, for industrial production.

The Wikipedia article gives you an overview, but THIS WAS REAL, NOT A MOVIE SET:

The Opsroom or Operations Room: a physical location where [nationalised industry] information was to be received and stored and made available for speedy decision-making. It was designed in accordance with Gestalt principles, in order to give users a platform that would give them a chance to absorb information in a simple and comprehensive way.

They didn’t get finished before the coup d’etat – the screens were used, but they had to have slides prepared each day rather than getting the data straight from the computer. But they were using the data – successfully, in many cases. All the major production facilities were, in fact, connected, via a massive network of telex machines, and data was flowing to the central computer, which was modelling and predicting based on daily data, and heuristic decisions were being made and acted upon and everything.

The goal was to have it all be realtime, as their computer capabilities ramped up. Keep in mind: this was in an era when moving this kind of data around and collating it within a single company in most countries could take took weeks, and decision-making could take even longer. They were doing it daily, with an eye towards continuously.

The difference between this and the Soviet and Chinese experiments is that it was intentionally decentralised. They were specifically avoiding those systems and trying to come up with something both socialist and rationalist and distributed – some of the factories had started setting up their own mini-facilities like this central one.

I’m fascinated by what they might’ve come up with, without Pinochet and his military dictatorship. They had the entire system destroyed – Pinochet was about authoritarianism, and had no time for this distributed-authority bullshit.

Mirrored from Crime and the Blog of Evil. Come listen to our music!

the-real-seebs: mid-atlantic-maelstrom: But one of them only...

Fri, 17 May 2013 11:19:46 -0700

the-real-seebs:

mid-atlantic-maelstrom:

But one of them only has two 9s, all the others have 3. NOOOO.

I feel obligated to be a spoilsport and point out that, due to poor typography, the 5 marker instead calculates to somewhat over 601.

Persona 4, aka OH MY GOD EVERYONE WANTS TO HANG OUT WITH ME TODAY I CAN’T HANDLE THIS SORT OF...

Fri, 17 May 2013 00:32:00 -0700

Persona 4, aka OH MY GOD EVERYONE WANTS TO HANG OUT WITH ME TODAY I CAN’T HANDLE THIS SORT OF SOCIAL PRESSURE

akko-chan: Girl Friends volume covers, 1-5.

Thu, 16 May 2013 21:26:00 -0700

akko-chan:

Girl Friends volume covers, 1-5.

I still maintain that this is the best possible name I could...

Thu, 16 May 2013 02:13:21 -0700

I still maintain that this is the best possible name I could have chosen for my rival.

duckish: Deoxys is available until May 31st via Wi-Fi...

Thu, 16 May 2013 01:52:46 -0700

duckish:

Deoxys is available until May 31st via Wi-Fi distribution!

Thanks for the supportive replies y’all.

Wed, 15 May 2013 20:33:00 -0700

Thanks for the supportive replies y’all.

Well, did a big scary thing today. Can’t really talk about it in the short term, but...

Wed, 15 May 2013 17:53:22 -0700

Well, did a big scary thing today. Can’t really talk about it in the short term, but I’m glad I did it. I’m shaky and exhausted right now, but at least I know I’ll feel better soon having dealt with it.

But right now I basically want to curl up and hide from everything.

Trans 101 for Trans People

Mon, 13 May 2013 17:40:55 -0700

Trans 101 for Trans People:

tranwrecks:

A Trans 101 For Trans People

You are human. You are worthy of respect. You deserve to be treated with the same dignity as anyone else. There is nothing inherently wrong with your gender. You are not broken, you are not disgusting, you do not deserve to be hurt.

You’ve been brought up and live in a world that’s designed to erase and demonize your existence, you’ve probably internalized a lot of that- and that’s not your fault. But it can be hard to deal with. But you aren’t alone in dealing with it. And sometimes you have to buy into it to be able to handle it (trigger warning: transphobic violence). And that’s okay.

Your gender is no more or less than anyone else’s. Your history doesn’t make you “not really” or “less” your gender than someone with a cis history, it just makes you a person of your gender with a different history.

You do not deserve to be held to higher standards than cis people. You do not have to “prove” your gender by forcing yourself into societal roles that may not fit. You are not “failing” anyone by fitting into societal roles that are comfortable. It is not your job to break down the binary/patriarchy/or anything else. If you want to, go for it, but you have no obligation to do anything for cis people just because you are trans.

Being yourself does not hurt trans rights (so long as you aren’t trying to do so while stopping others from being who they are) and is not a reason why people don’t have to treat you with respect. There is nothing wrong with being a feminine man or masculine woman, or being a person who’s comfortable in their body, or being a person who doesn’t transition all the way, or being out about having a non-binary or genderqueer gender. You have not “failed” anyone by doing this, you are not “less” of your gender than someone else. Being who you are is not a valid argument for why people can’t treat you as who you truly are.

No one else has the right to say your body needs to be changed. It only does if you need to change it. Or if you want to change it, that’s valid, too. Your body does not make you “less” your gender. It doesn’t make you “not really” your gender. It doesn’t mean you’re trapped in someone else’s body. You do not have to fix your body to “become” your gender- you already are your gender. All you need to do is what you need to do to be comfortable in your body. And if that includes reclaiming your right to label your own body, you are allowed to do that.

You have just as much of a right to privacy as anyone else. You do not need to tell anyone about your body, your medical history, or anything else. Whether or not your body needs to be changed for you to be comfortable, you do not have to change it to deserve to be treated as who you are. You do not owe anyone intimate details about your personal life before you can be treated as who you are.

You have no obligation to educate anyone. This includes trans people, but is most important with cis people. You are not a walking encyclopedia of transgender and/or transsexual information, you are a person. You do not have to answer every question any cis person comes up with, you do not have to represent trans people as a whole, (see 7) you do not have to bare the most personal and vulnerable parts of your soul to other people on demand.

Not educating people does not “hurt” trans rights. NEVER let anyone try to guilt you into educating people or doing something you don’t want to do by insisting that doing otherwise will “destroy trans rights/acceptance/whatever”. Trying to force trans people to become walking information desks or to put themselves in dangerous situations regardless of whether or not you’re even up for dealing with this destroys trans rights and shows a great deal of intolerance. Asserting that you don’t have to tell anyone anything you don’t want to? That really doesn’t.

If you do want to educate people, you are allowed to set limits and boundaries. You are allowed to say that you won’t talk about certain issues, or that you will only talk about them on your terms. You are allowed to decide which people you will talk to about which issues. You are allowed to change these boundaries if you become uncomfortable educating people you were previously willing to educate. You are not obligated to educate anyone just because you educated someone else.

You deserve to take care of yourself- whatever that means. You deserve to be comfortable and safe. You deserve not to be in dangerous situations. If you can’t handle something alone, you deserve to ask for- and get- help or, if you can, take a break from it until you can handle it. Or just stop doing it all together, that’s okay. Taking care of yourself does not make you weak, it does not make you an attention-grabber or overdramatic, it does not make you “less” your gender, it does not mean you betray other trans people by not being a full-time (or even part-time) activist. You’re human, you have limits, and that’s okay.

You deserve to have your boundaries respected. Any boundaries- how and where people can touch you, what information you give to who and when, what places you feel comfortable going or who you feel comfortable going with, what people can tell others about you.

You deserve to have the words you are and aren’t comfortable being referred to as respected. You deserve to have the proper pronouns used (and, if there are times when it’s unsafe for that to happen, you deserve to have your safety maintained by those around you), you deserve to be called the proper name, you deserve to have the words you want used to describe your body used, you deserve not to be called by any label, pronoun, word, or name that you don’t want to be called.

If you’re asking for something that you need to feel respected, comfortable, and safe- you are not asking for too much. Your identity is not “too complicated”. Your needs are not less important than anyone elses’.

You are human. You are worthy of respect. You deserve to be treated with the same dignity as anyone else. There is nothing inherently wrong with your gender. You are not broken, you are not disgusting, you do not deserve to be hurt.

vastderp: The Wabasha bridge in St Paul has been redecorated...

Mon, 13 May 2013 15:59:16 -0700

vastderp:

The Wabasha bridge in St Paul has been redecorated and temporarily renamed the “Freedom to Marry” Bridge by order of the Mayor in honor of Minnesota’s first Freedom to Mary Week.

“Today, we line the Freedom to Marry Bridge with pride flags to show the importance of this legislation to the City of Saint Paul, the families that live here, and to those who have been waiting for this day for many years,” Coleman said.

http://www.minnpost.com/two-cities/2013/05/st-paul-proclaims-freedom-marry-week

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Hey look, it’s my first-ever unreasonable request to update a fic! “But for only 1500...

Mon, 13 May 2013 11:00:27 -0700

Hey look, it’s my first-ever unreasonable request to update a fic!

“But for only 1500 word chapters, surely you can get some more done?”

Gosh, I feel like I’ve graduated or something.

homewut

Sun, 12 May 2013 23:32:31 -0700

a-love-letter-to-atrocity:

Half the people I follow on tumblr are friends of Eliza or friends of her friends and you guys sure do post a lot of homestuck stuff and I have never read homestuck but I am getting this sort of once-removed education on it and I from what I gather it is a web comic about transgendered kids with candy corn horns.